The first thing that comes to mind when I think of writers of substance (read: writers who create the kind of work that can support at least 90 minutes of thoughtful discussion) is that they see problems that really bother them. Social injustice is a big one; race, gender, sexual identity, and other power dynamics crop up a lot in the writing that has that ring of importance. Unfortunately, I am one step away from being politically illiterate. I’m straight, in the racial majority, and while I’m female, I have no dramatic stories of oppression to share. There was one time someone mistakenly called me a secretary because they saw me sitting at the front desk, but that’s about it.
But I still want to write something meaningful, so I took out a sheet of paper, set the clock for five minutes, and started listing things that bother me (no matter what they were). Here’s what I came up with*:
- “God” being an embarrassing word to say, never mind entity to believe in. I am religious, and I am rather intelligent. Not that I’d ever have the opportunity to verbally spar with Christopher Hitchens, but if I did, it frustrates me that he’d already think less of me for believing in God. This also goes for some believers who reject clear evidence in favor of literal interpretation–they make science-embracing, faithful people have to justify one or the other aspect of their belief. It’s annoying.
- Public schools
- Busywork
- The fact that I kind of like “Bridezillas.” How tacky 😛
- Cooking meat in milk
- Thoughtless cruelty
- Rape
- Rape or sexual abuse victims who go on to abuse others
- Narcissism
- Empty apologies
- Wearing shoes in the house
- Trash on a table
- People thinking they know a country just because they’ve visited (sadly, I have been guilty of this one)
- Patronizing people
- Laziness
- People who ask you how to do something, especially something simple, and then say something dismissive like, “Oh, I could never do that.” Why did you ask in the first place?
- Making inconvenient personality traits into illnesses (apparently being shy or introverted is an illness now)
- Wiccans
- Not having enough money, even though I work a lot
- Serial marriages and divorces.